Love Wiser

I've always believed that I have never learned to love someone. In my past relationships, my attraction to them was instant and I believe was love at first sight. Many would disagree but then no one can give a direct answer to the question:

when does infatuation end, and love start?

I still envy those who are not single. They're lucky to have someone to share with. It's becoming increasingly difficult to find someone after each relationship. Maybe because, the definition of love changes after each (failed) relationship. There are more expectations as to what love is. That might be the so-called wisdom concerning relationships of those who are older.

I don't agree. It just seems that as time passes by, we become less willing to take the risks involved in falling in love. Whether that is wisdom or not is subject to debate.