tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post8576451857948191552..comments2023-07-06T21:18:44.341+08:00Comments on Coming Out Clean: As Good As It GetsRygelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12929204861130334663noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-61673610494717271142008-05-02T23:14:00.000+08:002008-05-02T23:14:00.000+08:00In the end, only you can answer those questions fo...In the end, only you can answer those questions for yourself.<BR/><BR/>For what it's worth, you totally have my sympathy on the whole thing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-67139664494984588612008-05-02T22:06:00.000+08:002008-05-02T22:06:00.000+08:00*sigh* i know. but sometimes you can't help but ho...*sigh* i know. but sometimes you can't help but hope that maybe, maybe things will be different tomorrow...<BR/><BR/>It's been a year and I know it would be wise to distance myself. It would be a lot easier if there was someone else.<BR/><BR/>Wouldn't it be right to just accept the person? and be content? isn't loyalty enough?Rygelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12929204861130334663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-40738893036279752052008-05-02T19:48:00.000+08:002008-05-02T19:48:00.000+08:00He feels disgusted? Oh dear. That's not good. F...He feels disgusted? Oh dear. That's not good. For either of you.<BR/><BR/>I've learned the hard way (twice, no less) that getting involved with someone who is not yet comfortable with their sexuality and/or exploring it is just asking for heartbreak. And possibly other problems.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-35735092166341903092008-05-02T13:03:00.000+08:002008-05-02T13:03:00.000+08:00jarred, it be great if they weren't separate.Barba...jarred, it be great if they weren't separate.<BR/><BR/>Barbara, i also am wondering why its sooo easy for some. i've tried that kind too... wouldn't have lasted 2 years if that was the case.<BR/><BR/>May, had to look up that term :) but its more of he feels disgusted cause well... it's not acceptable behavior for him cause... he's a he and i'm a he... *sigh*Rygelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12929204861130334663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-55711076350809447682008-05-02T07:11:00.000+08:002008-05-02T07:11:00.000+08:00i do not know the specifics, but if i read between...i do not know the specifics, but if i read between the lines correctly, it sounds to me like he is just not as kinesthetic. i tell you, that can be taught...think about it and yes, go with the one you love. just an unsolicited advise.<BR/><BR/>and by the way, you four SEASONS all look hot :)mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09241471277723030930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-649832344657324012008-05-02T02:24:00.000+08:002008-05-02T02:24:00.000+08:00I spent three years in a relationship with someone...I spent three years in a relationship with someone that loved me trying to love him back. I would say, like Seithman, the ultimate relationship would be both. But in reality sometimes we make choices. I chose to be alone and hope that someday I find someone that I love, but he must love me back. <BR/><BR/>I don't understand why its so elusive for some of us and so seemingly easy for others....are we too picky? Are we idealistic?Bar L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11100008292699584336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-29840797722123711102008-05-02T01:08:00.000+08:002008-05-02T01:08:00.000+08:00Someone I love or someone who loves me? I'd like ...Someone I love or someone who loves me? I'd like to think the two aren't mutually exclusive.<BR/><BR/>Good luck at figuring things out, though. Matters of the heart can be so frustrating!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com