tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post6346293774159605945..comments2023-07-06T21:18:44.341+08:00Comments on Coming Out Clean: ???????Rygelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12929204861130334663noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-62461602547647156042010-04-01T15:18:50.681+08:002010-04-01T15:18:50.681+08:00love confused..love confused..jojowafunoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-15867252236635512552007-04-03T09:19:00.000+08:002007-04-03T09:19:00.000+08:00I have felt this and I'm sure alot of other people...I have felt this and I'm sure alot of other people have too. There is a reason for this...<BR/>We are not happy with ourself. Once a person can respect, love and really like one's self for who they are then that person wont have the need to have approval, love or gratification from another. <BR/>It took me 16 years in my relationship to realize that I need to love myself as much as I love him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-83523644983089009182007-04-01T08:26:00.000+08:002007-04-01T08:26:00.000+08:00I'm kind of overwhelmed by the fact that you wrote...I'm kind of overwhelmed by the fact that you wrote this...only because I felt that EXACT same way about my last boyfriend. I spent two years asking myself if this was as good as it got or should I move on in hopes that the one love of my life was out there waiting to be found. I knew by bf loved me, but always felt he loved me because of "the way I loved him" so did he really even love ME? The ME I wanted to be loved, appreciated and acknowledged for?<BR/><BR/>Ry, I am hugging you right now. It s no fun at all to be in the position you're in. <BR/><BR/>For me - I ended up leaving my bf and am glad I did because I would have been struggling still wondering. Sadly, I am still alone and very depressed...but I'm an old woman and you are a handsome, smart, loving young man...you deserve to find the right man to love you the way you deserve.Bar L.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11100008292699584336noreply@blogger.com