tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post3831736655048200061..comments2008-03-16T01:52:15.573+08:00Rygelnoreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-88258721103739675592008-03-16T01:52:00.000+08:002008-03-16T01:52:00.000+08:00Love came to me when I really wasn't looking for it.. <A HREF="http://kansasbob.blogspot.com/2008/03/love-at-second-sight.html" REL="nofollow">here is</A> the poem I wrote about it.Kansas Bobhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17440862813109808755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7767464070473675652.post-20144134415032038772008-03-13T21:42:00.000+08:002008-03-13T21:42:00.000+08:00I personally think that the real issue is one of mindset rather than activity. If you go into each encounter with a new person with the mentality of "maybe he's the one," it can have some negative effects on the experience. Your demeanor tends to change. How you respond to the situation tends to change.<BR/><BR/>However, if you go into each situation with an attitude of making and building friendships, everything's different. It takes the pressure off. Things become a more enjoyable experience. And then if you happen to really hit it off with one of your new friends, you can consider exploring the possibillities that lie beyond friendship.seithmanhttp://profile.typekey.com/seithman/noreply@blogger.com